It seems that our current society is gradually forgetting some important values, in general, people are becoming more and more mature. Sadly, in the minds of many people today there is still thinking about the differences between men and men and women. People often say " 30 years old but just like 20 " or " adult man acts like a spoiled child ". The truth is that when you turn 25, you have enough life experience to be able to behave like an adult.
In fact, few young people and too few " older " people can do well, because they really don't know what an adult man will be like. A true adult man means someone who is strong, confident, diligent, enthusiastic, caring about others, bravely defending their loved ones, resolving all problems, listening, one shore Solid shoulders that others can rely on.
The man is confident to know what is right or right in life, understands others who are dependent and has their own priorities. An adult man will never act like an inexperienced, immature or weak person . Here are 13 things that adult men don't usually do.
1. They do not let fear prevent their success and happiness
Fear - whether fear of failure, fear of rejection or fear of contempt - is one of the things that many men have to give up. Living in fear means that you always live and ignore big opportunities that negatively affect your career, life, love, relationships or simply to improve yourself. For mature men, they learn that fear is a gift for them and they must find a way to solve it and overcome it.
They are not hesitant to put themselves in some dangerous situations, especially when the only outcome of that action will hurt or upset themselves. A mature man lives every single moment of his life and is ready to overcome his limits.
2. They don't do everything just to please others
You can see young men who often work hard to impress women, some of the other men drink to appear to friends or some smart people to make the boss as well as their colleagues must respect. However, adult men will not be affected by other people's thoughts - their actions stem from their thoughts, they aspire to learn, improve and develop themselves in a direction they have out.
They train to be healthy and strong, they read books and take courses to broaden their knowledge, develop skills in areas they consider useful and interesting. In other words, they know who they are, what they want, although they respect other people's opinions, they only consult that opinion, and every decision is their choice.
3. They do not create themselves an ideal woman model
Many relationships break down when immature men bring their ideal type of women to compare with the person they are in love with, that last time is really just an illusion. Many boys are willing to give up marriage just because they think that girl is not her ideal wife. Women are like men - they also have strengths - weaknesses, admirable points - mistakes that can be ignored, desire to love and change. A mature man knows that and knows how to maintain his own relationship.
4. They are not affected by women's words or actions
Although adult men treat women fairly, they understand that women and men still have differences from physiological and socio-political perspectives. Each person is born nourished and the brain changes. Adult men also understand that women talk, argue and express emotions differently than men.
This is the reason why truly mature men are never affected by women's words or actions, they are able to observe and recognize things from different perspectives. They look at things subtly - in-depth understanding of development in psychological thinking and physical signs.
5. They are not angry for long
The Buddha had the sentence: " Keeping anger in your heart like you are drinking poison and hoping someone will die". In everyday life, arguing with friends, family members, lovers and colleagues is inevitable. However, a clear sign of a mature man is when controversy passes, all negative emotions are gone. A grown man will often say things like: "I'm sorry"; "Please forgive me, I was wrong"; "Let's forget it, nothing" and "Water flows through the bridge " they will accept apologies from others easily. If you go on being angry, your life will ruin all relationships and it's hard to be happy.
6. They do not feel inferior to their looks and style
Another big problem that most boys care about is their looks, costumes and actions. Feeling inferiority will lead to fear, anxiety and even anger, which will adversely affect your life.Self-deprecating men are often afraid of experimenting with new fashion styles because they don't want to be considered feminine or sometimes feel uncomfortable with their own shoes.
The world is always changing, so is fashion. Recently, hundreds of fashion items can be worn by both men and women regardless of your style. A mature man is willing to wear what he likes and doesn't care about the negative opinions around.
7. They do not want to leave the family
As time goes by, we become more and more mature, the tightening of family ties is becoming more and more difficult. There are many reasons why we have to, but it is not so difficult to spend a bit of time with parents, families, wives and children. A happy family will help a man become much more confident and mature.
8. They don't let others bully
There is a huge difference between assertiveness and stubbornness, which is something that immature men cannot understand. A mature man who always takes pride, knows how to control himself and confidently sets a limit so no one can bully himself. If someone deliberately crosses this limit, watch it.
They never force themselves to do what others do and are not easy to bear in front of others. It is not necessary to use force to solve things, they just need to negotiate strongly and surely can solve everything.
9. They do not disappoint or complain when they are positive with the challenge
Frustration or lamentation is an unnecessary thing for mature men. When faced with challenges, they always face, even help others calm down and push their spirits up high and work hard to find a solution. They often sacrifice themselves to face challenges and think that hard work is a must, these are things that adult men often never overlook. It is a simple rule that they always follow - or find out by being able to solve it - either silently until solving everything. This is why people around them always feel safe and optimistic.
10. They don't see work as something to endure
While many people think that work is something that is boring and restrictive, just want to do it quickly to be able to go home and do what they want, but the adults grow up so they always try complete the work at the best level and look for opportunities to develop yourself. Adult men realize that others are dependent on them, so work is what they prioritize. They always try their best to make more money for the person they love to have a full, happy life. That is the only motivation for them to work.
11. They are not afraid to act or make difficult decisions
In everyone's life, surely everyone will encounter difficult decisions and to solve only how to think quickly and act decisively at the right time. A mature man is always prepared to book in advance if he makes an appointment with his boss about promotion opportunities, advises friends to be right, though this may make them angry, ready to put themselves in dangerous situations. risk to protect the people they love or sacrifice their comfort to ensure happiness. This does not mean that adult men know exactly what to do or are able to handle every possible situation but simply that they will try to do everything they can to achieve the most satisfying results.
12. They do not set unrealistic goals
Some people often give up or feel frustrated because they have set goals for themselves in the first place. The important thing about growth is to be honest with yourself, know who you are to determine the right goal. They can persevere in a long way and know that they will surely achieve the desired results, because they understand that if they do not achieve quick results, they themselves will learn more.
13. They don't let ego overwhelm everything
Finally, a really mature man they know how to ignore me and think carefully before doing everything. They understand their actions can leave unwanted results and plan to predict what might happen in the future, like an experienced chess player.
For example, when shopping, they will spend a reasonable amount of money so they don't have to regret at the end of the month or know how to ignore all encouragement for a better future.
You have all these characteristics - something many men don't do before they really become a mature man. No one is perfect but the above things will help you improve yourself a lot more!
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